Thursday, November 20, 2008

eharmony.com

I was having lunch today and saw on the news another ridiculous abuse of the American legal system.

A couple of years ago some guy decided to sue eharmony.com, a couples matching website, because they didn't cater to gays and lesbians. You could only get matches for people of the opposite sex, and according to the lawsuit this was "discrimination".

Fast forward to today...

To make a long story short, eharmony finally settled with the New Jersey attorney general's civil rights division, by establishing a gay and lesbian site. Not only that, but they have to pay $50,000 in court fees, and $5,000 to the guy that sued them!

Ridiculous.

eharmony is a private business/website. They have the choice to cater to whatever demographic they want to, and whatever demographic they feel will be the most profitable. Forcing them to cater to gays and lesbians would be like forcing a vegetarian restaurant to cater to meat eaters, by making them serve steaks and burgers. The most ridiculous part is that eharmony established a separate website to handle their gay and lesbian customers, called "Compatible Partners".

Unbelievable.

If you're suing for equal rights, shouldn't it be part of the existing website and not separate?

I Googled "gay dating", and on the first page I had no less then eight gay and lesbian dating websites.  Why is this guy wasting his time forcing eharmony to cater to gays?  If this guy wants to date other gay people online then he should take his business to someone else!  That's the best part of being an American consumer; if I don't like what a business offers, I am free to take my money to the next business that offers what I am looking for.

I have no idea how the judge and court system even let this go through. I'm going to start suing every one of those gay specific websites because they don't cater to my heterosexual desires. (Sounds absurd, doesn't it?)

Engaged

So this is probably old news to most people by now, but Emily and I got engaged this last Saturday!

Afternoon at the park, frisbee golf, proposal, and dinner. Not a bad way to spend a day!

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Star Wars Tribute

10 Free Songs

Unfortunately you have to download them one at a time.  But hey, they're free.

They are bands I've never heard of, but they seem alright.  Here's the link:

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Go Vote

I voted today (see I VOTED TODAY sticker as evidence), and hopefully you will too!

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Point goes to the iPhone

Chalk another one up for the iPhone.  

AT&T just announced today that all iPhone customers will have access to over 17,000 AT&T Wi-Fi hot spots...for FREE!

Here's the link for more info: Free Wi-Fi for AT&T iPhone Users

If you're an iPhone user with AT&T, you should be receiving a text message from them shortly, if you already have not.

Why so long?

I'm sure you've heard this joke before...but why is the word abbreviation so long?

I never really thought about it before, but today I was searching for time zone abbreviations, and it dawned upon me why people make this joke.

Seems pretty silly and counterintuitive to me.  

Monday, October 27, 2008

Politics

Can be ridiculous sometimes. Ok, maybe all the time.*  

I've heard the republican party dubbed as the "Christian" party, more times than I can remember, but that doesn't make sense to me.  The last time I checked, Jesus was anti war, cared about helping out the poor, and I can only assume that he probably wouldn't approve of everyone having the "right" to be packing heat (carry a gun). That doesn't exactly fit the profile of a typical republican.  

The democrats don't make sense either.  It seems like they want to penalize you for being successful financially, and tax the crap out of you. All so the government can "redistribute" the wealth. Granted, this typically only affects the most wealthy people in America, but why should they have to hand over their hard earned money to the government who hardly seems to know what to do with it?  That's not very "fair" in my opinion.  When you start going down that road you're on a slippery slope to what could lead to Socialism; and that is definitely not what America was founded on. 
Another thing about the democrats is that they seem to be less religious, which is fine I guess, I realize not everyone is going to believe in God. But if you don't believe in some higher power, where are you getting your morals/wisdom from? Yourself? Right. Might as well go talk to your tree in your backyard and appoint it as your top advisor.  At least you would have someone to go to for environmental issues.

Anyways, my whole point is that I don't know the history of how the two main party lines came about, but it doesn't make sense to me.  And the more I learn about what each side supports, the more I'm realizing I don't fit the profile for either one. I'm sure there are other pros and cons to each party that I left out, but I think you get the drift.

Basically, the democrats are too liberal, and the republicans are too conservative (whatever that means).  It's crazy to me how so many people can be so supportive of one side or the other.  As soon as there is a party that is anti war, anti abortion, wants to legitimately help the poor, and use the environment in a responsible way, then sign me up.  Until then, I guess I'll just have to pick the lesser of the two evils.

*Disclaimer: I realize I'm making some huge stereotypes here, but isn't that what politics are all about? :)

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Vote

Considering the election is only a couple of weeks aways, I've seemed to avoid politics long enough.  I'm not about to get on my soapbox and go on about who you should or shouldn't vote for.  Instead, my focus is slightly more local; actually, it's a state concern.

There are eight propositions that will be on the ballot.  Please read and understand them.  They were amazingly hard for me to track down, so here is the link:


Two, in particular, I feel need to be addressed.  I'm not sure how, or by whom, the propositions are named, but Propositions 105 & 200 are extremely misleading...dare I say intentionally misleading, with their titles.

105

Prop. 105's official title is: Majority Rule - Let The People Decide Act

Now at first glance, you might think, "Great! 'Let the people decide'. What's wrong with that?"  Well, if you dig deeper, you will find this: 

"Proposition 105 would amend the Arizona Constitution to provide that an initiative measure that establishes, imposes or raises a tax, a fee or other revenue or mandates a spending obligation on a private person, a labor organization, other private legal entity or this state shall not become law unless the initiative measure is approved at the election by a majority of qualified electors registered to vote in the state."

In Layman's terms, that means that any new measure brought to the voters that involves changing taxes, fees, or basically anything to do with money, would have to have the majority vote of ALL registered voters, not just the majority of the people who decided to vote! 

This proposal is essentially anti-democracy. It would take the power out of the voting citizens hands, and give it to the lazy non-voters. If you are registered to vote, and don't, that's your problem! Also, if this were to pass, nearly everything involving money would be stuck where it is! I hope you like how money is being spent in your area, because with a system like this you would never get the majority of ALL registered voters to approve or change anything.  Smaller local issues sometimes have less than half of all registered voters even vote. Even if they ALL voted "Yes", it wouldn't matter because you would still not have a majority vote.

I don't care what party you support, this cannot become law. The Constitution was not written with this in mind.  "We The People" must not only decide to register to vote, but decide by actually voting.

200

Prop. 200's official title is: Payday Loan Reform Act

Now this one I suppose is more opinionated, but I find it equally ridiculous as Prop. 105.  With that being said, I am extremely anti all of the "Payday Loan" stores you find on almost every corner here in AZ.  They charge outrageous fees and interest rates, take advantage of the financially illiterate, and promote foolish spending and budget habits; all of which makes the owners of these stores richer.
 
Consider this...Federal legislation prohibits payday lending to members of the military. Hello!?! If the Federal government, of all people, thinks it's financially irresponsible for it's military personnel to take out these payday loans, then I'm sure this can't be the smartest thing to do with your money.

If you want more reasons/info as to why I am so opposed to these Payday loans, look here:


Anyways...

When you start to read Prop. 200, you are bombarded with a list of changes, that honestly, sound like a good thing.  Again, you might think (like I did), "Great! Those payday loan places rip people off with what equals out to be almost a 400% yearly interest rate.  Let's stop this and 'reform' them."  So why am I against all of these changes you might ask?  Once again, if you dig deeper, you will find this:

"The deferred presentment licensing program in the current law is set to terminate on July 1, 2010. Proposition 200 would continue to allow deferred presentment services indefinitely because it would repeal the program's termination date."

The original legislation only authorized these types of business to be in place until July 1, 2010. As of now, on that day the "probation" period for these types of businesses will end.  The legislator will then have to review these businesses and either renew the legislation, change it, or put an end to it. If Prop. 200 passes it will override this "probation" period and permanently allow these businesses to be in our state. 

I don't understand how these places are legal to begin with.  It's legalized extortion, in my opinion.  Not to mention it hits hardest the people that are already financially strapped to begin with!  Payday loans only make things worse.  They do not help people learn what is a proper way to handle their personal finances.  And we wonder why and how we got ourselves into this mess that we call the "housing crisis"?  Predatory lending practices just like this.

The moral of the story is this:

Please read and understand the proposals on the ballot. And for the sake of us all, do not "judge a book by its cover".  Or in this case, a proposal by it's name.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Irony

There's this online e-book that the pastor of my church suggested that guys should read. It's written by Mark Driscoll, who is a pastor of a church in Seattle, WA. His e-book is about how guys struggle with sexual sin; lusting over girls, pornography, strip clubs, masturbation, etc, and how damaging it can be.  The name of his book is, Porn Again Christian, which I suppose is fairly ironic in itself, but that's not what I'm writing about. It's really good. Probably the best thing I've ever read on the topic. It's pretty blunt and forthright on the topic, so you've been warned.  It's not raunchy or anything like that, but I think you get the drift. Also, with that being said, it potentially could make a woman pretty uncomfortable reading about what goes through the dirty minds of men, so definitely read the introduction first, so as to get a feel for what you are about to get into.

Anyways...after reading about all of this stuff, I was driving out to lunch today and was stopped by a light.  There was a driveway in front of me with a car waiting, so I left some room so it could pull out.  As I was waiting for the light to change, I realized that this driveway was connected to the parking lot of a strip club.  Not only that, but the car waiting to pull out in front of me contained a young woman who definitely fit the profile of an "exotic dancer".  As the light turned green, she gave a smile and a wave, and she was on her way.  I couldn't help but laugh a little at the irony of the whole situation, that only myself and God was aware of at the moment.

If you are a guy and have any sort of struggle with sexual sin (which is pretty much every guy I have ever met), I would recommend checking out the e-book.  It's not a long book, so there's no reason not to check it out really.  Driscoll is preaching on the Song of Songs right now, and is releasing parts of the e-book as he goes.  So at the moment, not all of it is available, but it will be shortly.  The parts that I have read so far have been very informative.  I suggest reading it all, introduction and everything.  Might take you an hour to read the whole thing.  Here's the link: